1. Don’t Criticize, always look for positives in a person or a situation. There is always something positive in every situation.
2. Don’t Condemn a situation (and a person) howsoever small it may be.
3. Don’t Complain, unless it is a must.

By avoiding the 3Cs, we avoid a lot of arguments that would usually naturally occur when you criticize, condemn or complain.

If we criticize, condemn, complain, show resentment, or gossip about others, it comes back to "us." If we praise, support, encourage and forgive others, this too comes back to us

(Disclaimer: The views expressed in this write up are my own).